Jennifer Lopez Hits Ben’s Place After Graduation … But No Sleepover

Jennifer Lopez went to Ben Affleck‘s new place this week, and while she may have stayed late … she didn’t spend the night.

The singer was spotted arriving at her hubby’s rental in Brentwood Wednesday after his kid’s graduation ceremony — and it looks like it was a family affair, ’cause she wasn’t rolling solo … we’re told Ben’s ex-wife Jennifer Garner was also in attendance.

No sign of any of the kids, but ya gotta figure they were there too … and like we said, J Lo joined the party — hanging around until about 10 PM, when she was photographed leaving.

In other words … there was no sleepover with her hubby, which kinda jibes with what we saw earlier in the day at the actual ceremony itself — where Ben and Jen seemed to be keeping their distance, arriving with separate parties.

We’ll say this … while Jen ended up leaving Ben’s place with a driver later on that night, she didn’t look all that glum — in fact, you could argue she was somewhat radiating on her way out.

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As you know … Ben and Jen have been sending somewhat mixed messages on the state of their relationship — but the writing on the wall seems to suggest they’re headed for Splitsville … especially now that we know they’re trying to sell their $60 million marital home.

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Ben has ditched his wedding ring on a couple of occasions too … but Jen’s remained steadfast, continuing to wear her rare green diamond engagement ring while out and about.

Considering their storied history as Bennifer … the fact they appear to be growing apart has kicked up a lot of chatter among their respective fans.

In the meantime … they’re kinda in limbo — but one thing’s clear … they ain’t sleeping together, or at the very least, they weren’t Wednesday night.